Things That Will Destroy Your Relationship
Confiding in others - Hiding addictions - Emotional cheating - Financial cheating Being selfish - Not standing up for your partner.
Confiding in others
A spouse may secretly confide in family or friends about his/her feelings and the relationship issues they are having with their spouse. Even if you are not being deliberately cruel, it is dangerous to be talking to friends/family about your spouse. The other person may inadvertently reveal your secret to the person that you are talking to. As long as the confidee has the right to the information, there is nothing wrong in confiding with them. However, the spouse who is the subject of the secret may still be upset and resentful of your desire to talk to a third party. Hiding addictions According to a study by the Canadian Centre on Substance Abuse, a man’s use of alcohol, drugs, gambling and sex is determined by his relationship status with his wife.
Hiding addictions
Research reveals that over half of all couples (52%) are likely to keep an addiction or a vice a secret from their partner. This can mean one or both partners are indulging in activities they should be supporting their partner through. Emotional cheating Emotional cheating is hiding a deep down inner struggle with jealousy, fear or anger. This is when partners begin to see their partner in a negative light and one partner will be more at ease in revealing the true them. Financial cheating Financial affairs are a very common cause of divorce. In fact, Financial affairs are one of the leading causes of divorce, one of the first issues couples should discuss and work on, to help keep their marriage or relationship strong.
Emotional cheating
6. Emotional cheating usually occurs when a relationship has been going on for a long time or when a partner has cheated on you before, either in the past or the present. This kind of cheating is more likely to happen if the relationship is very passionate, they enjoy each other's company and even share a close friendship. ALSO READ: 5 ways to spice up your sex life when you're bored 5. Emotional cheating occurs in couples with very different ideas of what love is and how to be in a relationship. The partner you love has revealed his true feelings, especially if this is the first time you ever felt this kind of passion, so even if you have a tendency to be impatient or conservative, you might find your partners behaviour romantic.
Financial cheating
Money does not make a relationship work. It's important to have a solid foundation in your relationship for financial plans to be made and executed in a timely manner. Abusing your partner emotionally and / or physically. Be it emotional affairs, physical violence or any form of abuse, couples need to know that they are entitled to stand up for themselves and refuse to tolerate any form of abuse in a relationship. Emotional cheating Do you always "check your phone" when you are with your partner? Do you constantly feel the need to discuss your latest "friend" or "gossip" when you are with your partner? What about constant texting your partner while they are at work? Do you share your secrets or finances with them? If your answer is yes, you might be cheating on your partner.
Being selfish
How many times has this happened to you? You love someone who's selfish in so many ways but you've convinced yourself that if you stand up for yourself and show her how bad she's being to you, she'll suddenly love you. Wrong! Well, she'll think you're the love of her life, but she'll not be able to love you. Here are few things she will never be able to love you for. 1. Letting you indulge in your own selfish ways. This is such a cliché, I know, but trust me, it is the most common flaw that people who live in a relationship exhibit, especially men. It could be that he is a workaholic, spends all his time in office and spends the rest of his time drinking and hanging out with his friends.
Not standing up for your partner
There are many other things that we just don't know about. What do you want your marriage to look like in 10 years? If I were to have one word to describe marriage in my past that it would have been "fizz". I never really cared about it. But now I am committed to it and I am very interested in all the different stages it goes through. I have been there and I know what marriage takes to make it work and I know what the signs are when it's not working. I have talked to a lot of other married couples that didn't make it and they are not really sure why. Life is so unpredictable. There's no predicting it. When you are in a relationship, you should really be planning for the worst and praying for the best. Because most of the time you end up getting the worst.
Conclusion
Your partner's spouse will do anything for them. They will also do anything to make up for the time they miss them during holidays and special occasions. So, do all these below and get a piece of cake! * All the deepest secrets are not for the eyes and ears of your spouse. You want to do all these, and hide them from your spouse. He/she knows that you are the person they get the hottest in bed, but once he/she looks at you, he/she will not get that same passion. * If your spouse takes that job, the sexual pressure on you will be much less. You don't need to put in more than what you already do in a single-sex relationship. * You can travel with your spouse without being dragged along.
